20 things you only know if you went to an all-girls school
Going to an all-girls high school isn’t like St Trinian’s but it does shape the person you become. Here’s a little checklist that I’m sure most (if not all) of my fellow all-girls school survivors will relate to.
Please let me know if I’ve missed anything.
- There’s two ways to wear your school skirt either rolled up ridiculously short or too long (aka the actual length as designated by the school rules).
- You saved all the nice Jane Norman bags to carry stuff into school with.
- The words ‘Now ladies’ became a part of daily life and you started to get really annoyed if anyone referred to you as a ‘girl’.
- Stuffing your mobile down your bra or readjusting your bra in public was just a normal thing to do.
- Similarly you probably still pull your tights up in public because it’s definitely socially acceptable to do that, right?
- You never underestimate the ability of another woman’s strength. You’ve seen first-hand the brutality of a female fight and you fancy keeping your hair in your head and your face claw-mark free.
- Over sharing isn’t something you’re familiar with and you don’t realise until you’re put into a mix-gender environment that some things are best kept to yourself, sorry boys!
- You thought you were the bees knees because you had all the good stationery from W H Smiths including all the smelly gel pens ever made.
- If there was a remotely decent looking male teacher, he became the Brad Pitt of the school.
- You tried to play the period card to get out of PE lessons. It mostly didn’t work though and you were out there on the rounders field with the rest of your mates.
- However if you really were caught off-guard and did come on your period at school it wasn’t the end of the world. Your 30 odd class mates were happy to offer you any spare tampons and sanitary pads of all shapes and sizes.
- There was always a rumour going round that a male teacher was sacked for sleeping with a sixth-former.
- Any opportunity to see the boys from the other school sent you and your group of friends into states of hysteria, especially if one of you had been texting him/chatting on MSN messenger.
- The first girl in your class to have sex became like the Messiah. Girls would gather round her in a circle to hear her words of wisdom.
- There was always one girl in your class who was really good at plaiting and she had queues waiting to have their hair styled next.
- Non-uniform days involved weeks of preparation. Planning; shopping for; executing the look and discussions on MSN who was wearing what.
- You were exhausted after lunch because you spent 10 minutes inhaling your food and 50 chatting with your mates.
- You can’t hear the Spice Girls ‘Goodbye’ without tearing up thinking about your leavers assembly.
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You made a gorgeous bride 🙂
I studied in a co-education so can’t relate to all those fun things but they sure made me smile.
Thank you so much. Xx
Haha. Yes, yes yes… I ticked all those things 😂
Hope it brought back some good memories Sarah! Xx
That it did. Especially the rolling the skirt and planning for uniform free days 😂
Haha brilliant. It was a simpler time!!
Oh hell yeah!
Love this, I went to a mixed gender school, however my mum went to an all girls school and she has pretty much mentioned most of the above before! Its interesting how its soo different to a mixed gender school environment !
I went to a co-ed school so can’t relate but very funny though.
I went to a mixed school but I certainly remember of few of these, particularly the Jane Norman bags and the crazy fights!
Oh yes definitely 😊
I went to co-ed school, so I can’t relate but it definitely made me smile
Thanks for having a read and for your comment x
Never thought of all these things, although some of them could happen in mixed school. I couldn’t accept the uniform, i find it tough not to be able to wear anything i want.
To be honest I quite liked the uniform. Not having to worry about what to wear everyday is quite nice!! Xx
The spice girls one really made me giggle! I didn’t go to an all girls school but we loved the Jane Norman bags too!
Alice Xx
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I think the Jane Norman bags were popular with all girls!! Xx
These are all spot on! I’m definitely guilty of pulling my tights up wherever I am and whoever I’m with! It’s taught me to have no shame haha
Haha yes no shame of course x
great post I believe any girl that went to such school must have experienced all or some of it
Thanks for the comment Matthew 🙂
Loved this post! So relatable😂😂😂
Thanks so much 🙂
Hahahahaa, That was so funny. I am quite sure that you miss these days so much ❤️❤️
Thank you. Oh I do. Much simpler times!
Yes, Indeed
This is so interesting! I didn’t go to an all-girls school. But I did go to a very small private Christian school. I can relate to a lot of these! I definitely wouldn’t trade my private school experience!
Ours was a Catholic school as well as single sex. Thanks for your comment lovely x
Very interesting post. I guess there is always pros and cons going to a co-ed school, all girls school, or all boys school. I went to a co-ed school and some of these happened at my school.
I went co-ed until I was 11 and I really enjoyed it. I was always a bit of a tomboy playing football and hanging out with the boys so at first it was a culture shock to me. But I loved it in the end. Thanks for your comment.
This is all so true but OMG, the tights thing. Guilty as charged!!!
Haha I do it every single time. #noshame
Haha this made me laugh, i related to so many of these. Especially rolling up my skirt and pulling up my tights 😂
I do the tights thing literally every day lol xx
My best friend went to an all-girls school. I’m sending her this post!
Hope it resonates with her! 😊
Those first two are universal for all UK school girls of a certain age. I wonder if anyone still goes to Jane Norman!?
This is such a sweet post and I love your wedding photo!!
I’ve always wondered what it was like to attend an all-girls school. This gives me a small glimpse into that world. 🙂 Very interesting, and thanks!
Thanks for stopping by 😊
Now I didn’t go to an all-girls school, but I can certainly related to some of these. Jane Norman! I’d completely forgotten about that shop. Does it still exist?!
Online only I think. No shops!
I had to re-read this Rachel as an all girls school student from 3- 17 years old! But my time was way before msn and phones lol!!!
Thanks for opening the curtain ont his!
Hahaha I love this so many memories 💗
Aw glad it’s brought back some good memories for you
I’m sure I did much better in an all girls school than with any boy distractions. This made me laugh.
Hope it brought back some good memories!
Oh now I feel old! I left an all girls school (with 10 boys in each lower and upper 6th) in 1999. No gel pens of mobile phones down the bra for us! All the rest is so true though.
Love this! I didn’t go to an all-girl school but this made me laugh out loud because my school was the exact same! These things were so relatable to my time at school hahaha! Happy memories! <3 xxx